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What do you do with the fear that you feel?

We snuck away to play in the snow last week before I began to truly understand the impact of Coronavirus in the US.  The image above is actually a screenshot of a hilarious video Oakley made of me.  I looked back to say “I’m a little nervous!” before I flew off down the hill, screaming all the way.

The COVID-19 pandemic started out as no big deal in my mind. 

In my naivete, it felt like it was happening so far away, it wouldn’t get to us, so safely tucked away here in the United States.  And even if it did, we would be so prepared, we’d all be fine.  I made choices aligned with that uninformed way of thinking for quite a while.

When we know better, we do better.  

But let’s be clear, knowing better and being better informed, will certainly not take away the fear that we’re feeling.  The rapid-fire …

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The reliable path to maturity

I got a chance to sit with a friend the other day who has endured some serious pain in her recent past and it doesn’t appear that it will be easing up anytime soon.  There are parts of her story I can relate to, but most of it is well beyond my scope of experience.  If I could intervene and wave a magic wand to fix it all, I would do it in a heartbeat, even it cost me dearly.  I would pay the price to make it go away for her.  But I cannot.

There’s not one single thing I can do to make it better.

As I listened to her story I had to silence the fixer-upper voice in my head trying to fill in all the gaps with wisdom and experience.  I could feel her pain across the table and I SO desperately wanted to take it away so …

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The beautiful strength in remembering

This may look like a simple stack of cards, but it’s certainly not.  

Inside these envelopes are stories.  They’re filled with memories and words of love and longing from the hearts of women at our Coco Vida Girls Night Out last Thursday night.  I spread them out like this on Friday morning in pure awe, and I haven’t touched them since.  I’m still discerning what to do with them.

When we first decided to celebrate Dia de los Muertos, I didn’t fully realize the extent to which it needed to be a night of remembrance.  

But as the planning developed, it became clear that it needed to be a night we ventured beyond the comfortable condolences of “I’m sorry for your loss” to sharing warm, specific memories of the ones we’ve loved and lost.  It needed to be a night we could bear witness to the lives of those who’ve stayed with us …

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Keep believing

I can’t even begin to describe how much I’ve learned since starting HeartStories in 2012 (officially 2013).  I was in it for what I could do to help others, but sitting here, looking back, it’s been almost seven years of the most intense season of growth of my life.  And I don’t foresee that changing anytime soon.  I live in a constant state of walking in the unknown.

Nothing is sure to work. 

Every risky choice I make is made from layers of experience, seeking wise counsel, praying earnestly, and then simply deciding it’s worth it to jump.  Merely choosing to do the next right thing. Sometimes that process turns out beautifully, even better than I could have hoped.  But it also often leads to painful lessons, challenges, and struggles I didn’t see coming.   IT’s the essence of the John Ortberg quote that you’ve surely heard me say a million times.  I still …

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How will you decide?

One quick glance at this image instantly spreads a smile across my face.  It’s from our “fireside chat” time at last month’s girls night out.  Brooklyn was clearly telling one of her hilarious “Brooklyn” stories, the way only she can.  Meanwhile, Sally and I are smiling those “Oh my gosh, is she really about to say this right now?” smiles.  I love it because I couldn’t possibly tell you which story she was telling.  Brooklyn tells wild, colorful stories.  She pulls you in with details, suspense, and surprises at every turn.

What I love most is her determination to keep moving forward, despite the fear.  

The stories Sally and Brooklyn shared that night were full of moments when they could have allowed fear to hold them back.  They could have listened to their fears.  They could have allowed the fears of others to be the guardrails that “kept them safe”.  But instead, …

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The only tiny bit that matters

There’s something about summertime that brings out an extra dose of wild sibling shenanigans around our house.  It’s the combination of all the extra quality time together, the lack of a structured schedule, and a diet that consists of “whatever we can find around here”.   It’s midday nerf wars and late night movies.  I remember the days like the ones in this picture when they were smaller and they thought it would be fun to try to learn to braid mom’s hair.  I tried to sit back and enjoy it, even though I think I lost half my head of hair.  These days, it’s trying to teach mom to shoot her nerf gun correctly and how, at a minimum, to stand up and run away while trying to learn to play Fortnite.

Summertime around our house has been completely different this year.  

I used to keep their summer schedules completely full.  They’d …

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